Many parents will hesitate whether children's participation in outward bound training is too young. In fact, most of the children are very smart now, but most of them fail to achieve the expected success. The reason lies in their lack of willpower and the spirit of persistence. Childhood and adolescence are the basic stage of life. It is very important and necessary for parents to consciously create some conditions for their children to carry out hardship education. "Bear hardships" is a kind of psychological endurance.

如何让孩子吃苦，吃什么样的苦？搜集总结了以下几点，和家长们分享。

How to make children suffer? Collect and summarize the following points and share them with parents.

一、父母要有让孩子吃苦的意识

1、 Parents should have the consciousness of making their children suffer

例如孩子学走路时，不要总是扶着她，有心的父母可以发现，那些总是由父母扶着练习走路的孩子学会走路所花的时间比那些自己去练习走的孩子所花的时间要长。父母要舍得让孩子去吃这些苦：

For example, when a child learns to walk, don't always support her. Conscientious parents can find that children who are always supported by their parents spend more time learning to walk than those who practice walking by themselves. Parents are willing to let their children suffer from these hardships

在家里，自己独立完成自己的生活起居，打扫自己的房间，清理自己的物品等，学习上，自己独立思考，独立完成，心理上要独立。

At home, I can finish my daily life independently, clean my room, clear my belongings, etc. in my study, I can think independently and finish it independently, and I should be independent psychologically.

家长不能代替孩子去考虑问题，要孩子自己去思考，尊重孩子的意见，这样孩子能独立思考问题，能有主见，从而为孩子以后的成功打下基础。

Parents can't take the place of children to consider problems. They should think by themselves and respect their opinions. In this way, children can think independently and have their own opinions, so as to lay a foundation for their future success.
                 

二、父母主动与孩子一起吃苦

2、 Parents take the initiative to bear hardships with their children

要知道，只知道享受的父母，是不可能培养出一个能“吃苦”的孩子的。所以父母可以与孩子参加晨跑，参加体育运动，如一起打球，一起游泳，一起旅游，这样可以增加与孩子沟通的机会，同样让孩子得到了锻炼。能吃苦来自日常生活中一点一滴的积累，来自一件件没有妥协退让的小事情。

You know, only know the enjoyment of parents, it is impossible to cultivate a child who can "endure hardship". So children can participate in sports together, such as swimming, so they can participate in sports together. Can bear hardships from the daily life bit by bit accumulation, from a piece of no compromise concessions small things.

比如：天气很冷，孩子今天不打算去幼儿园，父母不迁就孩子，顶着寒风带着孩子去幼儿园；烈日炎炎，晚上回家很累了，父母会和孩子像平常一样去冲凉，而不是倒头便睡；孩子和父母跑步，再有十几米就要到达预定的终点了，孩子喘着气不想再跑，父母鼓励着孩子，一起奔到终点……

For example: the weather is very cold, the children do not plan to go to kindergarten today, parents do not give in to the children, and take the children to the kindergarten in the cold wind; the hot sun makes it very tired to go home at night, and the parents will take a shower with the children as usual, instead of falling asleep; when the children and their parents run, it will be more than ten meters to reach the predetermined end point, and the children are panting and do not want to run again, which are encouraged by their parents Children, run to the end together

这一桩桩、一件件都在锻炼磨砺着孩子，使他们具有坚强的意志品质，使他们能吃苦。越是爱护孩子，就越要加强他的“吃苦”教育。让孩子吃点苦受点罪，才是爱护与负责。

This pile, piece by piece in training, sharpening children, so that they have a strong will, so that they can bear hardships. The more we love our children, the more we need to strengthen the education of "bearing hardships". Let the child suffer a little, is love and responsibility.

三、一点一滴的积累，没有妥协退让

3、 Little by little accumulation, no compromise

尤其是男孩，对一个未来的男人来说，吃苦耐劳是他的立世之本，没有吃苦耐劳的精神，他注定难以面对日益竞争的社会竞争。

Especially the boy, for a future man, hard work is the foundation of his life. Without the spirit of hard work, he is doomed to face the increasingly competitive social competition.

让孩子吃点苦，受点折腾，是为他们将来的人生旅途走得平稳顺畅，所做的储能蓄势的准备。让他们踏入社会后，在风雨人生中，充分实现自身价值。

Let the children suffer a little pain and suffer some setbacks, which is the preparation of energy storage for the smooth and smooth journey of their future life. Let them step into the society, in the wind and rain life, fully realize their own value.

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